Confessions of a Middleagedmom

surviving motherhood in the “middle ages”

Annual Pumpkin Patch November 4, 2008

Filed under: baby,children,dad,family,moms,toddlers — middleagedmom @ 10:59 pm
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Fall is here! That’s right it’s pumpkin time!

Last weekend we visited the pumpkin patch. Princess was so excited she didn’t want to leave. Baby enjoyed all the bumpiness on the hay ride. It was the cutest thing because she was laughing so much.  Princess also enjoyed the hay ride, the pony ride, and picking a pumpkin for Baby and herself. This year Princess was a little more selective about her pumpkin. I didn’t let her choose a really big one because I couldn’t carry it. For some reason, Princess wanted “mommy” to go with her so Mr. MaD stayed with Baby under cover from the rain.

Even with a little mud, we had lots of fun!

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P.S. Isn’t it funny that your 2nd child seems to experience things earlier than your 1st child? When Princess was a baby, I wouldn’t have even thought of taking her to the pumpkin patch. How things change when you have more than 1 child!

 

Witness

Filed under: children,family,moms — middleagedmom @ 10:29 pm

Today I happened to be at the mall. As I was getting Baby out of the car and into the stroller, I noticed a mother changing her child’s diaper in back of her SUV.   A little later a woman parked next to her and came out of the car and said something to the mother. As it turned out, the woman was mentioning the shopping cart that was between both cars.  I guess it was the mother’s cart and the woman wanted her to either move it or be careful not to bang her car. The mother did not look happy.

A few seconds later, the woman walked away and the mother finished changing her child’s diaper and was putting the child into the car seat. Then I saw the mother walk around to the front of the woman’s car (on the driver’s side) and deposit something on the front windshield. Well, of course, my first guess was…a dirty diaper! Yikes! I happened to glance at the windshield when I left the mall and it sure looked like a diaper to me.

Frankly, I couldn’t believe what happened! I was shocked and disappointed in the mother. Okay, I don’t know if the woman was being rude or mean to the mother but I don’t think “getting even” is the answer. For one thing, why would this mother stoop so low? It’s downright immature and mean. Secondly, it sets a poor example for her children. What is she teaching? If someone says something you don’t want to hear, you have the right to do something mean back to them to get even.

Boy, if everyone treated everyone else like that, where would we all be as human beings? I was truly disappointed as a human being but I was even more disappointed as a mother!